Massages are great for soothing sore muscles, easing tension, and relaxing mind and body. Did you know, however, that massages can also excite and arouse?
This is exactly what sensual massage is for. Through sensual massage, couples can rub and stroke away their partner’s stress, and if they wish, can also set the stage for a wonderful night (or day, if your prefer) of intimacy.
Mind you, we specifically used the word intimacy because, even though sensual massage is an excellent form of foreplay, it is a great way for couples to connect and be both literally and figuratively closer to one another. While it may very well lead to intercourse, a sensual massage in itself is a wonderful way for couples to express how much they love and care for each other.
All that we’ve written so far covers why a sensual massage is such a wonderful activity for couples. Let’s get on the how.
Before you begin, you need to prepare a few things. On top of the list is hygiene. Have a bath (with your partner, if you’d like), and set aside some baby wipes and towels. Take care, too, that your fingernails (and toenails as well) are trimmed – you don’t want to end up scratching your partner.
Invest in some massage oils too. We have various massage oils in a range of prices available on Zawajfun.com, including Don’t Stop Massage Oil, Naturals Massage Oil, and Flickering Touch Massage Oil. If you’re feeling a bit more adventurous, you may also prepare a blindfold and other aids.
Make sure your room is ready too. Keep the room at a comfortably warm temperature so both of you can remain undressed. Dim the lights to keep the mood relaxed, and maybe light some candles to provide additional ambience. Putting on some mood music also adds to the experience, but make sure you keep the volume low. You want the music only in the background while your partner’s sighs and moans take center stage.
Don’t be too hasty when applying oil. You don’t want to put it directly on your partner’s body. Instead, place a generous amount on your hands, rub them together, and then lay your hands on your partner.
Keep your strokes light, especially at body to body massage hong kong the beginning. While kneading is great for certain types of massage, your touch for a sensual massage should usually be much gentler.
Aim to tickle, tease, and arouse – your touch should naturally stay light.
Remember that your hands aren’t the only tools available – you have all the different parts of your body at your disposal. Stroke your partner’s back with your hands, then follow up with a line of kisses up and down the spine. Blow gently into your partner’s ear, and if you have long hair, use it to tickle your partner’s feet, stomach, or elsewhere.
While we’re on the subject of playing with body parts, remember to explore your partner’s body too. Don’t restrict yourself to massage hot spots like the neck, shoulders, and back; or commonly known erogenous zones.
Try (gently) nibbling the ears, kissing the wrists, or blowing on the back of the neck. Of course, don’t neglect the known arousal areas mentioned above either – there’s a good reason they’re known as erogenous zones.
Remember the blindfold we mentioned earlier? Now is a good time to use it. When your partner is deprived of one of their senses, the sensations produced by your massage are only amplified.
We’ll stop at play because, put simply, we think that’s the most important part of the sensual massage. The key to a sensual is to keep it light and fun, and be open to experimentation and exploration. Try to tickle each other in new and different ways, and try to make each other feel laugh, sigh, moan, and scream in pleasure. As you do this, you also connect with each other in delightful new ways, and celebrate Allah’s (SWT) wonderful gift of intimacy.